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Cameron Anne Young Anastasia Esposito (born October 17, 1981) is an American actress, comedian, and podcaster known for her^[a] show Take My Wife, as well as her stand-up comedy and her podcast, Queery. Esposito substantially focuses on topics surrounding the LGBTQ+ community, feminism, social justice, and the challenges faced by members of marginalized communities.^[2]^[3] Originally from Western Springs, Illinois, Esposito lives in Los Angeles with her wife, Katy Nishimoto.

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Cameron Esposito
Esposito at the 2016 San Diego Comic Con
Born	Cameron Anne Young Anastasia Esposito^[1] (1981-10-17) October 17, 1981 (age 43) Western Springs, Illinois, U.S.
Alma mater	Boston College
Occupations	Actress comedian podcaster
Years active	2007–present
Spouses	River Butcher (m. 2015; sep. 2018) Katy Nishimoto (m. 2021)
Comedy career
Medium	Stand-up television radio internet

Website	cameronesposito.com

Early life

Born to Italian-American parents Brenda and Nick, Cameron Esposito was raised in Western Springs, Illinois.^[4]^[5]^[1] She is the middle of three children, having an older sister and a younger sister.^[6] In high school, Esposito swam breaststroke on the swim team,^[7] was a member of a community service group called The Marians Society,^[8] and was a semifinalist for the National Merit Scholarship Program.^[9] She graduated from Benet Academy in 2000.^[10]^[11]

Esposito studied theology and English literature at Boston College, intending to become a social worker in Chicago.^[12] While in Boston, she played rugby^[13] and performed in the school's improv troupe, My Mother's Fleabag.^[14] Esposito graduated from Boston College in 2004.^[15]

After returning to Illinois, Esposito began a Master of Social Work at the University of Chicago for one semester, before dropping out and deciding to pursue a different career.^[12]

Career

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Early stand-up career

Esposito began her stand-up career in Chicago, performing in various local venues, including as a regular at The Lincoln Lodge from 2007 to 2011.^[16] She has appeared at comedy festivals including SXSW, the Moontower, Bridgetown Comedy Festival, and SF Sketchfest. To supplement her income, she worked in special education, as a law clerk, and as a nanny.^[17]

2013–present

In 2013, Esposito made her television debut on The Late, Late Show with Craig Ferguson. Fellow guest Jay Leno expressed admiration for Esposito, calling her "the future of comedy".^[18] She has appeared on Conan^[19] and on Last Call with Carson Daly. She voiced "Carroll the Cloud Person" on an episode of Cartoon Network's animated show Adventure Time. Entertainment website Consequence of Sound named Esposito its comedian of the year for 2014.^[20]

In the fall of 2014, Esposito created a series of videos with BuzzFeed Motion Pictures titled "Ask a Lesbian",^[21] in which she answers a variety of questions sent in to BuzzFeed staff about lesbianism. The videos also featured then-partner River Butcher.^[22] In addition to touring regularly, Esposito was a regular panelist on Chelsea Lately with Chelsea Handler^{[citation needed]} and used to write a regular blog on The A.V. Club.^[23]

Esposito's comedy album Same Sex Symbol was released in December 2014 by Kill Rock Stars. She appeared on Comedy Central's Drunk History as a storyteller on October 20, 2015. Esposito co-hosted the stand-up comedy podcast Put Your Hands Together with River Butcher, which was recorded weekly in front of a live audience at the Upright Citizens Brigade Theater in Los Angeles from 2013 until July 2019.^[24]^[25]

Esposito is known for her lesbian content creation,^[26] especially hers and Butcher's television show Take My Wife, which streamed on Seeso until the service was discontinued in November 2017.^[27] In March 2018, Take My Wife was picked up by iTunes.^[28] The show was acquired by Starz in April 2018.^[29]

Esposito's podcast Queery is an interview-style podcast focusing on contemporary queer luminaries and their life experiences.^[30] Queery guests have included River Butcher, Lena Waithe, Tegan Quin, Sara Quin, Evan Rachel Wood, Jill Soloway, Mary Lambert, Andrea Gibson, Margaret Cho, Alia Shawkat, Roxane Gay, Trixie Mattel, and Lea DeLaria.^[31]

On June 11, 2018, Esposito released Rape Jokes, an hour-long standup special about sexual assault from her perspective. The special was free to stream on Esposito's website, but viewers could pay to download a copy and proceeds would benefit RAINN, the United States' largest anti-sexual violence organization.^[32]^[33]^[34]^[35] By September 2018, the special had raised $65,000 in donations.^[36]

On March 24, 2020, Esposito released her memoir Save Yourself.^[37] In 2025, Esposito was announced as a guest performer on the second season of the panel show Smartypants, on Dropout.^[38] Additionally, on March 21, 2025, Dropout announced a standup special featuring Esposito, titled Four Pills, as an exclusive release on April 11.^[39]

Personal life

Esposito is openly lesbian and was married to fellow stand-up comedian River Butcher from 2015 to 2018.^[40]^[41]^[42] Butcher and Esposito collaborated on multiple projects, including the Put Your Hands Together stand-up show, the podcast Wham! Bam! Pow!, and the TV show Take My Wife.

In April 2021, Esposito came out on Twitter and Instagram as genderfluid, stating that she uses both she and they pronouns.^[43] In June 2021, Esposito announced via Twitter that she had married Katy Nishimoto, an editor for Dial Press.^[44]