一夜情

一夜情是指與未建立感情基礎的人發生合意性行為。一夜情一詞在20世紀後出現。一夜情英文為「one-night stand」（ONS），原意是一晚的戲院表演。一夜情也是一種常見的外遇。^[1]^[2]如果一夜情之後關係再發展下去，即想以「性」來維持一段關係，這樣的話就會成為炮友。

宗教團體基於反對婚前性行為和抑制性病傳播的立場，視一夜情為違反道德問題。^[3]。

一夜情也是最常見的不忠形式^[1]，並且經常在研究、民意調查和社會調查中被用來定義一個社會在任何特定時間的濫交程度。^[4]有人認為，這種行為對一段感情的威脅可能和長期的婚外情一樣大：

一夜情可能比找一個有共同考慮的愛人更危險。這種情況對那些勝算更大的商務旅行者來說是有利的；然而，即使只是一夜情，了解與你上床的人是誰也是非常重要的。沒有人可以免除給你造成麻煩，無論距離或情況如何。一夜情仍然是不忠的一種形式，如果被發現，對你和你的伴侶的傷害是一樣的。^[5]

一些女性認為，那些感到性方面缺乏安全感或沒有得到滿足的女性應該為了個人的成長和滿足而尋求一夜情。有人寫道，「一夜情是採擷及時（拉丁語：carpe diem）的縱慾展示——我們不過抓住的是夜晚而非白天」。^[6]還有聲音建議尋求賦能的女性「通過一夜情來開啟你的盛花期」，^[7]並闡明一夜情應是一個有意識的決定。^[7]

Tinder和Grindr等在線約會應用程式的出現助長了一夜情的流行，這些應用程式允許人們為了包括性接觸在內的目的而建立聯繫，儘管這些工具也可以用來尋找長期伴侶。^[8]

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[1]
Jeffrey S. Turner, American Families in Crisis: A Reference Handbook (2009), p. 47.
[2]
de Jong, D.C.; Reis, H.T. Love and Intimacy. Encyclopedia of Mental Health. Elsevier. 2016: 25–32. doi:10.1016/b978-0-12-397045-9.00107-5. Passionate love is an emotionally intense and consuming desire for union... people can feel sexual desire in the absence of passionate love (e.g., one-night stands).
[3]
【影】研究：炮友炒飯比傳統伴侶做愛更安全！. ETtoday新聞雲. 2012-12-11 [2021-09-05]. （原始內容存檔於2021-09-05）（中文（繁體））.
[4]
Liverpool named UK's most promiscuous city in 'one night stand' poll. Metro.co.uk. Associated Newspapers Limited. 8 January 2014.
[5]
J. Frances, Joann Perrino, Designing Infidelity: A Reference Guide to the Art of Cheating to Perfection (2006), p. 4.
[6]
Susan Cheever, "Sex With a Stranger", in Erica Jong, Sugar in My Bowl: Real Women Write About Real Sex (2011), p. 35.
[7]
Jodi Lipper, Cerina Vincent, Live Like a Hot Chick: How to Feel Sexy, Find Confidence, and Create Balance at Work and Play (2010), p. 167.
[8]
Laura Palmer, "Dating in the Age of Tinder: Swiping for Love?", in Julia Carter and Lorena Arocha, eds., Romantic Relationships in a Time of 『Cold Intimacies』 (2020), p. 129-149.

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[Turner-1] [1]
Jeffrey S. Turner, American Families in Crisis: A Reference Handbook (2009), p. 47.

[de_Jong_Reis_2016_pp._25–32-2] [2]
de Jong, D.C.; Reis, H.T. Love and Intimacy. Encyclopedia of Mental Health. Elsevier. 2016: 25–32. doi:10.1016/b978-0-12-397045-9.00107-5. Passionate love is an emotionally intense and consuming desire for union... people can feel sexual desire in the absence of passionate love (e.g., one-night stands).

[3] [3]
【影】研究：炮友炒飯比傳統伴侶做愛更安全！. ETtoday新聞雲. 2012-12-11 [2021-09-05]. （原始內容存檔於2021-09-05）（中文（繁體））.

[4] [4]
Liverpool named UK's most promiscuous city in 'one night stand' poll. Metro.co.uk. Associated Newspapers Limited. 8 January 2014.

[5] [5]
J. Frances, Joann Perrino, Designing Infidelity: A Reference Guide to the Art of Cheating to Perfection (2006), p. 4.

[6] [6]
Susan Cheever, "Sex With a Stranger", in Erica Jong, Sugar in My Bowl: Real Women Write About Real Sex (2011), p. 35.

[Lipper-7] [7]
Jodi Lipper, Cerina Vincent, Live Like a Hot Chick: How to Feel Sexy, Find Confidence, and Create Balance at Work and Play (2010), p. 167.

[8] [8]
Laura Palmer, "Dating in the Age of Tinder: Swiping for Love?", in Julia Carter and Lorena Arocha, eds., Romantic Relationships in a Time of 『Cold Intimacies』 (2020), p. 129-149.

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