Reported in Josiah Hotchkiss Gilbert, Dictionary of Burning Words of Brilliant Writers (1895), p. 246
Never tell evil of a man, if you do not know it for certainty, and if you know it for a certainty, then ask yourself, 'Why should I tell it?'
As quoted in What Billingsgate Thought: A Country Gentleman's Views on Snobbery (1919) by William Alexander Newman Dorland
Aphorisms on Man (1788)
Aphorisms on Man, translated by Henry Fuseli (London: J. Johnson, 1788)
Who in the same given time can produce more than others has vigor; who can produce more and better, has talents; who can produce what none else can, has genius.
No. 23
All affectation is the vain and ridiculous attempt of poverty to appear rich.
No. 53
You may tell a man, thou art a fiend, but not, your nose wants blowing. To him alone who can bear a thing of that kind, you may tell all.
No. 84
Who makes quick use of the moment is a genius of prudence.
No. 91
The discovery of truth by slow progressive meditation is wisdom. Intuition of truth, not preceded by perceptible meditation, is genius.
No. 93
Who seldom speaks, and with one calm well-timed word can strike dumb the loquacious, is a genius among those who study nature.
No. 126
Say not you know another entirely, till you have divided an inheritance with him.
No. 157
I am prejudiced in favour of him who can solicit boldly, without imprudence. He has faith in humanity — he has faith in himself. No one who is not accustomed to give grandly can ask nobly and with boldness.
No. 170
Too much gravity argues a shallow mind.
No. 183
He who makes too much or too little of himself has a false measure for everything.
No. 188
He who has no taste for order will be often wrong in his judgements, and seldom considerate or conscientious in his actions.
No. 189
The more honesty a man has, the less he affects the air of a saint — the affectation of sanctity is a blotch on the face of piety.
No. 200
The craftiest wiles are too short and ragged a cloak to cover a bad heart.
No. 259
Have you ever seen a pedant with a warm heart?
No. 270
If you see one cold and vehement at the same time, set him down for a fanatic.
No. 292
He who, when called upon to speak a disagreeable truth, tells it boldly and has done, is both bolder and milder than he who nibbles in a low voice, and never ceases nibbling.
No. 302
Him, who incessantly laughs in the street, you may commonly hear grumbling in his closet.
No. 315
Superstition always inspires littleness, religion grandeur of mind: the superstitious raises beings inferior to himself to deities.
No. 342
The jealous is possessed by a "fine mad devil" and a dull spirit at once.
No. 345
In William Shakespeare's The Merry Wives of Windsor, Act 5, sc. 1, Falstaff says that Mistress Ford's husband has "the finest mad devil of jealousy in him".
Good may be done by the bad — but the good alone can be good.
No. 362
There are but three classes of men — the retrograde, the stationary, the progressive.
No. 371
The prudent sees only the difficulties, the bold only the advantages, of a great enterprise; the hero sees both, diminishes those, makes these preponderate, and conquers.
No. 390
Let none turn over books, or roam the stars in quest of God, who sees him not in man.
No. 408
Trust not him with your secrets, who, when left alone in your room, turns over your papers.
No. 449
A woman whose ruling passion is not vanity, is superior to any man of equal faculties.
No. 450
Trust him little who praises all, him less who censures all, and him least of all who is indifferent about all.
No. 491
You are not very good if you are not better than your best friends imagine you to be.
No. 536
Where there is much pretension, much has been borrowed — nature never pretends.
No. 556
Neatness begets order; but from order to taste there is the same difference as from taste to genius, or from love to friendship.
No. 594
The public seldom forgive twice.
No. 606
He submits to be seen through a microscope, who suffers himself to be caught in a fit of passion.
No. 608
Venerate four characters: the sanguine, who has checked volatility and the rage for pleasure; the choleric, who has subdued passion and pride; the phlegmatic, emerged from indolence; and the melancholy, who has dismissed avarice, suspicion and asperity.
No. 609
All great minds sympathize.
No. 610
Actions, looks, words, steps, form the alphabet by which you may spell characters.
No. 637
If you mean to know yourself, interline such of these aphorisms as affect you agreeably in reading, and set a mark to such as left a sense of uneasiness with you; and then show your copy to whom you please.